Someone Like You

I heard that you're settled down
That you found a girl and you're married now.
I heard that your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you.

Old friend, why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I begged
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "
Yeah

You'd know how the time flies
Only yesterday was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I'd hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I begged
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."
Yeah

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you
Don't forget me, I begged
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I begged
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."

Nothing is new with the love story behind Adele's hit "Someone Like You". It has the same plot where two person meets, they fall in love for an undetermined length of time, one leaves the other for some tragic reason, then the one left ends up having self-pity.

Songs like this may sound too dramatic for some but there are still those who fall for these depressing and heart wrecking songs. Why? Because not only in movies and songs that this tragic love story can be seen but it also happens in reality. And because of the simple reason that deep down we relate to them.   

"Move on"... easy to be said but most of the time it is difficult to put into action. As the song narrates, it is usually easy for us to wish for the best to the person we had loved. But there is this feeling inside our hearts that hopes for things like being not forgotten by the person who left us or even the hope for a second chance.

Why is moving on difficult for some? Is it because they have loved the other person too much that they cannot let go of the feeling even if the relationship is already over? Is it because of the things that  weren't clearly discussed during the break-up or what is most commonly called as "closure"? Whatever reason might be, I now believe that relationships come to an end because each of the persons involved in that relationship is given the chance to find his/her "God's best". In God's time, each of us is bound to meet a person who He thinks is the best for us.

B1G7 - Finding Rest (Part 2)

There were lots of fun and exciting activities during the B1G7 retreat which were surely enjoyed by all of the participants.

Messages and Breakouts - "Messages" are the presentations made by the speakers (most of them are Pastors) to all the retreat participants about topics like Sin and The Cross. These talks were held at the main hall for about an hour or two. After each message, we would have discussions within our own breakout groups. There were different fun activities during the breakout sessions that have helped us better understand the topic that was discussed by the Pastor. Personally, I enjoyed each breakout discussion because I was able to share to my group my experiences in life that are related to the topic discussed by the Pastor.

Taken during our first breakout session :)

Dawn Watch - This is the activity wherein we had to wake up really early and sing our praises outside where we can see and appreciate God's creations. At exactly 6AM, my roommates and I joined the other retreat participants at the playground nearest to our room. We were surrounded by trees, flowering plants, and chirping birds. While singing songs of praise, we could feel the cold breeze and we can see the beautiful sky. "Dawn Watch" has made me realize that God is really good for blessing us with these wonderful things. For me, this is really an awesome experience and one of my favorite activity in B1G7.

Praise Night - For me, this activity is like a mini concert of God-loving and God-fearing people :) I must admit that I felt uneasy at the start since it's my first time to attend an event like this. But I had fun. People were dancing and singing on top of their voices. Everyone seemed to had so much fun during this activity.

Games - There were cool games participated by many during B1G7. Just by hearing the name of the games, one couldn't probably imagine how fun each game is. As described by the hosts, the games were real life versions of some well known mobile applications like Angry Birds. Unfortunately, my roommates and I decided not to join since we all preferred to get some power nap while everyone was busy playing :)

With my CTOM friends who invited me to attend B1G7

My roommates and breakout group :)

B1G7 - Finding Rest (Part 1)

One busy day at work, I was invited by an officemate to attend a retreat. The idea of joining a retreat sounded awesome to me since a lot of things had happened to me for the past months. So I thought that this was my very much needed break from everything -- work life, busy city life, as well as personal & family problems. I was even more convinced when my officemate told me that the retreat fee will be shouldered by her and my boss. Isn't that great?! So without any hesitations, I did confirm my attendance to this much awaited event.

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The theme of the retreat was "Finding Rest". It was a 3-day event held at Chateau Royale, Batangas. I already knew beforehand that this was a Christian retreat. And even if I am a Catholic, I didn't mind joining it. Anyway, what I am eager about are the good things that I will gain after the event. At first, I was a bit culture-shocked as I wasn't used to how Christians do their praises. But it was indeed a wonderful experience. I learned a lot of things from all the sessions. I gained new and wonderful friends. I learned new things about God. And most importantly, I felt spiritually renewed after the retreat.

As mentioned by one of the speakers, we were there not by accident. Instead, it was in God's plan that we are there at that very moment. This is certainly is true! God wanted me to be in B1G7 retreat after all the hardships I went through because He loves me very much and He wants me to know that everything happens for a reason. And that I should be very thankful for every single thing in my life. After the retreat, I always felt good about my surrounding. I learned how to appreciate everything God has given me. Thanks for everyone who has been part of this very memorable experience. I am looking forward for B1G8! :)

More than a thousand participant who were able to find rest :)

Another Well Spent Thursday

Thursday - the day of the week that I partly hate because of number coding. My car's plate ends with "7", therefore on this day I have to wake up early and go home a bit late.

Most of my Thursdays are spent in Makati. Even though I have to wake up really early, I prefer to work in our office in Makati because of the simple reason that "a lot of things always happen on Thursdays". 

Just yesterday, 1st of December, I was at CTOM Makati. Here were the things I did which really made me feel good and happy the whole day:

1. Arrived at work before 7AM and started to work early thinking that I would be able to finish all my tasks before 5PM.
2. Attended mass at PBCOM tower with my church buddy.
3. Received a starbucks treat from my friend. Now, I only need 3 more stickers for my starbucks planner!
4. Still not done at work by around 6:30PM. But I felt very eager to attend the Dgroup session of my CCF friends. Thank God, He probably wants me to attend this so miraculously I was able to finish my work by 7PM.
5. Drove to Pasong Tamo to meet my Dgroup. Yehey, there was no traffic. Thank God! I was there just in time.
6. Had my first and very memorable Dgroup session :)
7. Went to KFORCE office to visit my friends. We were talking about nonwork stuffs for about 2 hours. 
8. Went home at 12MN :)

This is a very productive Thursday. I was able to do a lot of things. I was able to enjoy every activity I did. I also felt awesome after the Dgroup session.

I am hoping to have more meaningful Thursdays in the future! :)